Can you become a new you ... when everybody knowing the “you that you hate” .... is behind your back?! … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
Can you become a new you ... when everybody knowing the “you that you hate” .... is behind your back?! … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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One day … you decide to have make a change with your life.
Even a big one.
And you dare to start acting in the new direction.
For example you decide to stop smoking and your close friends are telling you, laughing in the same time:
“Hey! You think to stoped smoking just because you haven’t smoke in the morning?!
Haha!
I did the same many times.
2 hours from now you will beg me to give you a cigarette”
It’s like you hear “You have zero chance to stop smoking! Don’t even bother to play this game!”
And the funny things is that “encouragements” comes from very close friends … not from strangers.
But imagine a different scenario.
You move to a different city, you start working in a new company … and no one knows you in there.
You decide to stop smoking in the first day you start working in that company.
Guess what?!
No one will ever mention that you smoke or you don’t smoke.
The new people know nothing about your habits and don’t really care … so at least you will not be forced to deal with their negativity.
The change … has better chances to start, but also continue in the way you want to happen.
Truth be told … people around us influence a lot our lives.
Is quite difficult to create a change … when family or close friends tell you about your old way of being … and that a different you is imposible to appear.
The problem is that we can’t just move to another city or change the job … just because we want to quit smoking or make another personal change.
But you see … is just a decision to stop interacting with all those people that
have a negative impact on your life.
And even the path of solitude is a better one … and sometimes the best.
Also remember … if you want to be a loser, spend your time with losers … if you want to be a better person … spend more time with positive people.
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